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Make a Decision: It is the source of your power

Many of us have lots of ideas about what the government should do, what our bosses should be doing, or how our friends should be raising their kids. But what about our own lives?

What ideas do we have about our own lives? Are we burying our heads in the sand, not looking at what we really want for ourselves? Perhaps you know exactly what you would like your life to be like, if so, what are you doing to create the life you want?

Most of us seem to be more comfortable to react to life or simply go along with whatever is thrown at us, never defining what we really want… ignoring the niggle at the back of our minds, the slight ache in our hearts… So what would happen if you did acknowledge your deepest dream, if you did look at what you really wanted?

Imagine you look at what you want full on, first your dream for yourself and your life starts to come into a proper focus, take on structure and definition, and you get a really good feeling thinking about how it would feel to live your life the way you want to, then… Oh no! Reality check. You look at who you are right now and just can’t see how you can get from where you are to where you want to be. Fear sets in… you couldn’t possibly make the changes that would be needed for you to achieve your dreams. Disappointment and that down at heart feeling that comes with unfulfilled desires sets in.  You feel so powerless.   Slowly you dull your emotions so you can cope and thus apathy creeps back in.  Heaven forbid you should ever acknowledge the life you really want again, it is just too painful!

I am the archetypal slave to apathy. I feel safe in my apathetic little existence.  No one to rock my boat, no one to disappoint, no one to criticise, no one to challenge me, nothing to be responsible for…  and all I have to do to stay safe is to stay in my little orbiting satellite looking down on the world, just watching, watching what everyone else is doing.  How depressing! How deeply, deeply lonely.  If this is how I am going to live my life then what is the point? This may seem a somewhat extreme version of your life, but seriously, what are you doing to keep safe?  You may not have made yourself a little satellite but do you love to sit on your fence, judging everyone else, never taking a stand for yourself, never putting yourself out there for others to comment on?

Evaluating so long I stand still and go nowhere

Your power to live the life you want, to be the person you want to be, lies in your ability to decide, to choose one thing or another, to take a stand and then act accordingly. The definition of power is the ability to act effectively. To be effective (powerful) you need to decide something and then follow through on that decision by taking action.  The more you remain on your fence, in your satellite or simply apathetic, the less power you have in your own life, your effectiveness is zero!

So make a choice today! Choose to remain as you are or choose to change. The effectiveness (power) in that choice (decision) will be based on the action you then take to support your choice.

I’ve chosen to focus this article about our need to make decisions and act of them in order to be truly effective, on the the very  “big” subject of your dreams and aspirations, however, your ability to make a decision and act on it applies to every area of your life whether it be choosing to go on a diet, deciding which university to attend, choosing to remain in your job or find another, deciding to trust your intuition, or choosing to hold your tongue or speak up in a given situation. Wherever an opportunity or choice is given to you, don’t sit on the fence, choose!

Be powerful in your life!Decide. Then, act to support your decision.

If you struggle with apathy, over evaluation, lack of action, sitting on the fence, feeling powerless or overpowering others these may be part of your life lesson. Have your hands analysed to discover your life purpose and life lessons – it is an enormously empowering experience that will help you choose!



Helen Evans is a non-predictive life purpose hand analyst and purposeful space designer.   Her passion is to empower individuals to fulfil their dreams, entrepreneurial, spiritual and personal… to be paid for what they love to do, to live and work in spaces that make them feel good and to take care of themselves and their well-being.  She uses the pragmatism of her African upbringing and the deep intuition of her Celtic roots to guide her clients into the lives they really want.

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2 Responses to “Make a Decision: It is the source of your power”

  • Thank you, Claire!
    Your light is shining so bright. Thank you for the wonderful work you do, changing people’s consciousness of how to live their best lives…

  • Yes, Helen’s LifePrints analysis really does ‘work’ – in the sense that it helps you see your own, hidden, often unconscious blocks to achieving the life you desire – AND helps you see your ‘strengths’ – and how to use them to maximum effect. Highly recommended!!

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