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What is your home like? How does it feel for you when you are in it?

This week I really got thinking about this as we are due to exchange on the sale of our apartment next week… so the pressure is now on to find us a new home and I’ve been trawling the various websites to see what we’d like to view, and going off to see properties that are promising.

OMG!! I honestly am stunned by the state of the places I’m seeing and the worst is that people are actually living in them. They are so depressing. How on Earth could anyone manifest their dreams from such an environment?

My environment affects how I feel about myself, my sense of self-worth. It affects my sense of what I deserve. It affects my sense of peace. It affects my ability to get a good night’s sleep. If you don’t feel good about the space around you, the people in your life then it tells your sub-conscious you don’t believe you deserve better… the result, your subconscious will do its best to prove you right.

So if you’re struggling to make your dreams come true, if you’re struggling to get out of a hole or build a business, please take a good look at the environment you are inhabiting. You may not need to move. You may just need to give it some care and attention…

Invest some time and effort in your environment and it is the same as investing in yourself!

Perhaps you need some new furniture, a new set of linen, some new towels, some artwork you love, to repaint or just to re-organise your space so it’s easier to live in, easier on your eye? Of course, a good clean, throw out session or tidy up can do wonders too!!

Seriously, honour yourself a little!! You deserve to be treated well, so start by doing it yourself first!

You’ll be amazed at what you’ll attract as a result…

If you’d like to connect more regularly please do connect with me on Facebook (which is where I hang out most days) via my personal page Step Into Your Light (inspirational, my life philosopy) or  Your Life Purpose is in Your Fingerprints (specific to fingerprint analysis and life purpose).

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Helen Elizabeth Evans, Your Purpose-Driven-Business Mentor, is also the UK’s No. 1 Life Purpose Fingerprint Analyst. She has appeared on Channel 5 TV and been featured The Daily MirrorWomen magazineSpirit & Destiny magazine and Soul & Spirit magazine. She has 17 years experience running her own businesses and now uses that experience and non-predictive life purpose fingerprint analysis, to help her clients create businesses that are not only completely aligned with their life purpose but also make a difference in the world AND earn them a sustainable income.

You can find out more here: www.stepintoyourlight.com or contact Helen direct at info@stepintoyourlight.com.

 

Struggling to Write…

Do you look at all these people blogging, self-publishing books, sending ezines and posting their stuff on social media and wonder…

How do they do it?

OR perhaps “Why” do they do it?

A number of people have suggested I “write” and recently a friend posted on Facebook “Helen.

I really like your [Facebook] page. Great to see you, Danny and children the other evening. Thank you for a lovely eve. I left, feeling inspired. You really have a lot of knowledge, regarding the human condition, and I feel strongly this is an area you should explore. You’d make a great therapist, and the more I hear you speak, I am CONVINCED you are a WRITER!!!!………… xxxx

This got me thinking about how much I struggle to write about the things that people seem to want to hear about…come and chat with me and I’ll share anything with you, but write it down…aaahhhh!!

Perhaps you are one of those prolific writers that amaze me, OR are you more like me? Do you struggle to move how you feel, your true wisdom, into the written word?

Give me a subject you’re interested in… Give me a problem you want to solve… and I will share anything with you if you let me talk WITH you, talk and listen, listen and talk.

So why not just talk and not bother with writing?

Or in my case “trying” to write… :)

My reasons are:

  1. I have an enormous desire to make a huge difference in people’s lives… to do that I need to get my message out into the world, people need to see me, hear me and understand who I am and what I can offer them. (And now the panic sets in…)
  2. I want to grow, personally; to grow in knowledge, love and Spirit… to do that I need to put myself into positions where I have to face my fears and develop the resources to overcome my challenges. (Going into business on your own is the modern equivalent of putting yourself into a convent or monastery in the old days. It will bring up every one of your issues and force you to grow more deeply and greatly than you ever thought you could…)

Both these things can happen if I just talked to people, but there is something deep within me driving me to reach ever wider and larger audiences (while the other part of me is freaking out and doing its best to keep me in hibernation… so much safer!)

What makes you want to write or speak up? (What is driving you?)
What brings on writer’s block for you? (What makes you want to hide out?)

I respectfully suggest your internal rhetoric that stops you,  may well sound very similar to mine.  Here’s are the hurdles that hold me back from just pouring my thoughts and insights out onto a page regularly:

  1. I struggle with all this “window dressing”, much of what appears to be superfluous, inauthentic “clap trap”, and I think a lot of people I know do too. (Here I am judging based on my values of transparency/ authenticity/ being real, respect for others space and time so feeling its important only to put in front of them what is genuinely helpful to them.)
  2. I struggle to OWN the value I do provide. Do I really know what I’m talking about? Who says? (Here we have some childhood beliefs kicking in, e.g. “It’s bad to brag”, “Who do you think you are?”)
  3. The things I don’t do that I think I should, get more “air time” in my head, focusing me on what I’m not good at rather than what I am good at. (Here we have patterns of thinking or habit loops kicking in that formulated in childhood, exacerbated by school!)
  4. What if I upset someone? (And here we have the most primal of instincts kicking in, e.g. rejection from the tribe used to mean death so we do everything we can to avoid rejection or even the potential for rejection.)

Has your rational mind been answering my concerns as you read them? Of course. I know a lot of it is nonsense and the more aware I am of how my mind is working the more able I am to move through these challenges…

So again I ask you, why do you want to write? And what’s holding you back? What’s stopping you really revealing your truth? What is your message for us?

 

Join me online, sharing AUDIBLY – Tuesday 26th February 2013

 

If you’d like to connect more regularly please do connect with me on Facebook (which is where I hang out most days) via my personal page Step Into Your
Light
(inspirational, my life philosopy) or Your Life Purpose is in Your Fingerprints (specific to fingerprint analysis and life purpose).

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Helen Elizabeth Evans is the UK’s premier life purpose fingerprint analyst, and Your Signature Brilliance Decoder. She has appeared on Channel 5 TV and been featured The Daily Mirror, Women
magazine, Spirit & Destiny magazine and Soul & Spirit magazine. She is a non-predictive life purpose hand analyst, Master NLP Practitioner, astrologer and purposeful space designer.

Her passion is to get the world to stop seeing themselves through the limits imposed by their experiences and conditioning, to both, see and live according to the true spirit that lies within them. Doing so empowers individuals to fulfil their dreams, entrepreneurial, spiritual and personal… to be paid for what they love to do, to live and work in spaces that make them feel good and to take care of themselves and their well-being.  She uses the pragmatism of her African upbringing and the deep intuition of her Celtic roots to guide her clients into the lives they were born to live. If you’d like to know more about stepping out of your cave and into your light, experiencing the confidence to really SHINE as you, then please visit www.stepintoyourlight.com or contact Helen direct at info@stepintoyourlight.com.
To discover your soul’s blueprint for building your purpose inspired life, ask for a life purpose fingerprint analysis!

Selling: Being OK with Others Selling!

The way most of us feel…

When I started my search in earnest I was very open to what people were offering as solutions. Certainly the way they were pitched grabbed my interest and it sounded like their offerings were exactly what I wanted and needed.

The result? I made some very expensive mistakes!
I felt very naive and taken advantage of…

The biggest problem was that I stopped feeling I could trust me to know what was a good investment and what wasn’t, so the moment there are any signs of someone pitching me their business my subconscious throws up warning bells of “Get out of here! We’re in danger!!”


It makes me want to run!!!

I hated feeling like that!

I can’t change them making offers. What I can change is how I feel about it…

Life is about giving and receiving, buying and selling. It is how the world works and I have found that being angry with people who try to sell to me in the hundreds of ways out there, limits me, not them. The walls in me go up to keep them out but that also tends to keep me in, limiting my ability to receive – whatever the context.  So NOT the way I want to be.

So what has changed for me in terms of how I feel about other people selling to me and in terms of selling my own stuff?

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Life Purpose: Discovery Is Not Enough!

So now you know your life purpose… what are you doing with it? How are you using it to move from where you are to where you want to be?

When you finally discovered what your life purpose was it felt so exciting (or did it feel disappointing?), and then you got home and the fear kicked in… it’s too much, too overwhelming…there is no way this is me… nice fantasy but far safer to pretend than to actually move towards it… I’d need to change my job to do that but I can’t,

I need the money…  I don’t have the time to take all that on… and so on.  What do you say to yourself? What are the reasons you don’t embrace your life purpose?

The following is one of my favourite quotes of all time…

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Celebrate!

Last week was a big birthday week for me and my family. My mother, my daughter and I celebrate our birthdays 4 days apart… my mother all but dismisses her birthday, mine is between my mother’s and my daughter’s so it tends to get forgotten until the last minute as I’m so busy trying to prepare for my 4 year old’s party. Talking to many people around me this seems so typical… we celebrate ourselves less and less as we get older. Why? Surely we should be celebrating ourselves more and more?

Wouldn’t it be nice if we could celebrate who we are and those around us everyday.  But lets be realistic! Life is busy and for most of us that’s not going to happen as much as we may like it to, so the next best thing is to take time out at special times of the year to celebrate who we are, where we’ve been, where we are, our capacity to love and be loved.

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Treat yourself!

I am special!

In our society we talk about love a lot! One of the current themes is “love yourself”.  What does that really mean?  Try this instead… Value yourself. Value your place in this world. See and value the impact you have on those around you. See and value the role you play at home, at work and in your community. Why value yourself? Well, it is a bit like owning a car… if you value it you will make sure it is kept in good shape so it is able to fulfil its function in your life.

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